Even If Reactivity Has Taken Over.
You know the streets to avoid.
You know the times of day where the pavements are quieter. You’ve mapped out the crossing points, the blind corners, the routes where other dogs are likely to appear. You’ve built an entire system around managing the one thing that should be the most natural part of your day.
A walk with your dog.
And when your Collie reacts — the sudden explosion of barking, the lunging, the locking on and completely shutting you out — it’s not just loud. It’s humiliating. It’s frightening. And underneath all of it, it’s heartbreaking.
Because you chose this dog on purpose. You knew they were intelligent. You knew they were sensitive. You were ready for the work.
What you weren’t ready for was this.
Here’s what nobody tells you about reactivity: it doesn’t plateau on its own. Without the right structure behind it, the patterns become more ingrained over time. The triggers multiply. The threshold lowers. Your dog starts reacting to things that never used to bother them.
And while that’s happening — quietly, gradually — your world gets smaller too.
You stop suggesting the morning walks you used to love. You avoid the parks, the village centres, the places you used to go without thinking. You turn down invitations. You build your entire day around what your dog might be able to cope with.
And late at night, the thoughts that are harder to say out loud:
“Is this just how it’s always going to be?”
“What if I’ve already made it worse without realising?”
“Did I choose the wrong breed for my life?”
You haven’t failed your dog. But without the right framework — one built specifically for how a Border Collie’s nervous system actually functions — most owners stay completely stuck no matter how hard they try.
Generic training advice doesn’t work for this breed. And every month that passes without a clear plan is another month where the patterns become harder to shift.
My Border Collie Jasper was the reason I stopped doing general dog training and started working exclusively with reactive Collies.
I remember the walks where I’d cross the road three times before we’d even reached the end of the street. The way I’d scan every field entrance before letting him off lead. The evening I came home, sat on the kitchen floor, and genuinely didn’t know if I was the right person for this dog.
I tried the advice. I watched the videos. I worked with other trainers. And some of it helped — for a while — before the same patterns came back.
What changed everything wasn’t a new technique. It was finally understanding the nervous system behind the behaviour. How a Border Collie processes threat differently. How unmet drive feeds reactivity in ways most trainers never address. How to build genuine calm — not just suppress the explosion.
That understanding is the foundation of everything inside this programme. And it’s why the results with Collie owners are so consistent — because for the first time, the work is actually targeting the right thing.
Dogs who once reacted at everything now pause, check back in, and recover quickly. Owners who dreaded every walk now plan routes without thinking twice about it.
It’s not magic. It’s method, structure and support — applied consistently over 12 weeks.
EXCELLENT Based on 10 reviews Posted on Google Samantha WillotsonTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Ellen is so Helpful and really knowledgeable. I join the Collie collective a few months ago to help my Collie Blu with his reactivity. I followed her Calm Collie Method program and the changes i've seen are amazing. Blu is much calmer and able to cope around things that he couldn't before. We aren't perfect but I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel. Thankyou so much Ellen!Posted on Google Irene AndersonTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. I joined the Collie Collective following a 5 day free course online. It's the best thing I could have done and opened a door to the huge number of training videos and personal support that Ellen provides to members. Ellen has a wide knowledge of the breed, explaining how they think and helping resolve issues that can arise in the home setting. Ellen is a great teacher and is happy to work with owners and dogs on a personal level. Everyone has different challenges but Ellen has advice for all. Members are encouraged to share videos of both progress and problems and offer support when things don't go so well. We all learn from each other as well as benefiting from the ongoing advice and guidance that Ellen offers. I recently attended an in person workshop that Ellon ran. It was a great learning experience for both me and my dog. Can't wait for the next one! I'd thoroughly recommend the Collie Collective.Posted on Google John and Cath GiddingsTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Ellen is a brilliant trainer and her work with us and Finn has been invaluable. Finn was highly reactive and even taking him for a short walk had become impossible. Ellen’s knowledge and understanding of Finn’s reactivity was amazing and without her help we would have been lost. Her approach is clear, friendly and professional and we would highly recommend to everyone. Ellen has not only helped Finn but also helped us to understand and learn so much too. We can’t thank Ellen enough for all her hard work with Finn.Posted on Google Diane DaleyTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. We are really grateful to Ellen for all her knowledge, support and kindness for Woody our Border Collie. We approached Ellen as Woody is fearful of traffic, even when walking in quiet areas, when returning to the car or going where he could hear the traffic noise this made him fearful. We had the initial discovery meeting with Ellen and it was clear her professional advise and help was going to be invaluable. We have had 2 face to face and 2 remote sessions, these have all been brilliant in explaining why Woody is fearful and how to resolve this with supportive techniques. Ellen has a wonderful easy going approach with both Woody and us, her expertise and passion is evident, she makes you feel at ease, we have learnt so much and without her support we would have struggled to know how to help Woody in such a positive way. Woody through distraction and support is definitely much more comfortable when there is any cars/traffic nearby, we have a way to go but with all the information from Ellen this will help us to continue to support Woody. The package was excellent value when you consider the support from Ellen and the fantastic Collie Collective information, all tailored for Border Collies. In addition to the specific support we have learnt so much more that will enhance Woody's wellbeing e.g. Sheep Ball, etc. The admin support from Millie was also appreciated and very efficient. We would highly recommend The Urban Herder - Ellen if you need any support for wonderful Border Collies.Posted on Google Paul CollierTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. 100% recommend. For Herding breeds and none Herding breeds. Staff are incredibly knowledgeable, helpful & understanding.Posted on Google Hannah MooresTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Highly recommend Ellen at the urban herder after completing a workshop for pet professionals. The workshop was informative and well put together, I will defiantly be looking at more courses/workshops in the future.Posted on Google Hari DomanTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. Amazing training day on connecting with your Collie and sheep balls. Really informative and enjoyablePosted on Google Linda BrooksTrustindex verifies that the original source of the review is Google. A really good workshop at Grimsby today looking at sheep ball and learning about this fantastic breed.So good to be with someone who totally understands border collies and how to help them get the best out of life.Wish there had been someone like Ellen when I got my first collie many years ago.!!
"Before working with Ellen, Beau would explode at every dog on the street. By week 6 he was walking past groups of dogs and checking back in with me. I actually cried." —
Before working with Ellen, Beau would explode at every dog on the street. By week 6 he was walking past groups of dogs and checking back in with me. I actually cried."
Before working with Ellen, Beau would explode at every dog on the street. By week 6 he was walking past groups of dogs and checking back in with me. I actually cried." —
Before working with Ellen, Beau would explode at every dog on the street. By week 6 he was walking past groups of dogs and checking back in with me. I actually cried."
Every element of this programme is built around your dog specifically. Not a template. Not a group plan adapted for one person. A fully personalised, one-to-one programme from start to finish.
We start by understanding your dog completely. Their full history, trigger map, environment, what's been tried, what helped and what made things worse. This session shapes the entire programme and ensures everything that follows is built around your Collie specifically.
Weekly calls where we work through the programme together, step by step. Every session builds directly on the last. You always know exactly what you're doing, why you're doing it, and what to expect next — no guesswork between sessions.
As your dog progresses, we move to fortnightly check-ins. You're building real independence and confidence — with expert oversight the whole way through to make sure progress keeps moving in the right direction.
A completely custom trigger map and clear progression framework built around your dog. Not a document you receive and file away — a living plan that evolves as your Collie improves throughout the 12 weeks.
Direct access between sessions. Send videos of your training. Ask questions when something unexpected happens. Get real, specific feedback exactly when you need it — not just inside a weekly call window.
Access to a community of Collie owners who understand exactly what this journey looks and feels like. Ask questions, share progress, and feel genuinely supported throughout the programme.
Every element of this programme is built around your dog specifically. Not a template. Not a group plan adapted for one person. A fully personalised, one-to-one programme from start to finish.
We start by understanding your dog completely. Their full history, trigger map, environment, what's been tried, what helped and what made things worse. This session shapes the entire programme and ensures everything that follows is built around your Collie specifically.
Weekly calls where we work through the programme together, step by step. Every session builds directly on the last. You always know exactly what you're doing, why you're doing it, and what to expect next — no guesswork between sessions.
As your dog progresses, we move to fortnightly check-ins. You're building real independence and confidence — with expert oversight the whole way through to make sure progress keeps moving in the right direction.
A completely custom trigger map and clear progression framework built around your dog. Not a document you receive and file away — a living plan that evolves as your Collie improves throughout the 12 weeks.
Direct access between sessions. Send videos of your training. Ask questions when something unexpected happens. Get real, specific feedback exactly when you need it — not just inside a weekly call window.
Access to a community of Collie owners who understand exactly what this journey looks and feels like. Ask questions, share progress, and feel genuinely supported throughout the programme.
Full membership to Ellen's ongoing Border Collie support community — live monthly Q&As, expert guest sessions, structured training challenges and a community built specifically around this breed. Your programme doesn't end at week 12.
The complete video-based training library to work through alongside your coaching sessions. Breed-specific, structured and built for real-world reactivity — available to revisit as many times as you need.
The complete video-based training library to work through alongside your coaching sessions. Breed-specific, structured and built for real-world reactivity — available to revisit as many times as you need.
Unmet drive is one of the most significant and most overlooked drivers of reactivity in Border Collies. This bonus gives you a fully personalised enrichment plan and a complete library of predatory play and herding games built specifically for your dog — giving them the genuine breed outlet that makes everything else in this programme work faster. Because this programme is fully personalised and high-touch, I work with a maximum of 6 one-to-one clients at any one time. When those spaces are filled, I open a waitlist. This isn't a marketing tactic — it's how I maintain the level of support every client deserves.
This isn’t a course you buy and work through alone. It’s a structured, fully personalised programme that requires my full and consistent attention on every client.
Keeping numbers small is what makes the results possible. And it means when spaces are gone, they’re gone until a current client completes the programme and a place opens up.
Every week without a clear plan is another week where the patterns become harder to shift. Another walk survived instead of enjoyed. Another day where your world stays a little smaller than it should be.
A free, no-pressure conversation about your Collie — where you’re at, what’s happening on walks, what you’ve already tried, and whether this programme is the right fit for you both.
If it’s a fit, we’ll talk through how the programme works and what getting started looks like. If it’s not, I’ll be honest about that too and point you in the right direction.
Either way, you leave with more clarity than you arrived with.
No. The length of time a behaviour has been present affects the pace of change — not the possibility of it. Border Collies are highly intelligent and highly adaptable. With the right approach, dogs who have been reactive for years still make significant, measurable progress. The first session will give us a clear picture of where your dog is starting from and what realistic progress looks like for them specifically.
Most trainers aren't Border Collie specialists — and the difference matters enormously. This breed processes threat, arousal and drive in ways that generic reactivity protocols simply don't account for. The Calm Collie Method is built specifically around how Border Collies function, not adapted from a general framework. That's the difference owners notice from the very first session.
Yes — and many clients actually get faster results online. You're working in your real environment rather than a training space, which means everything we work on is immediately relevant to the actual situations your dog faces. Video feedback via WhatsApp also means I can see exactly what's happening between sessions, not just in the call window.
If you attend every session, implement the plan and actively engage with the process — and you don't see measurable improvement in your dog's reactivity by the end of 12 weeks — I will continue working with you at no additional cost until you do. That's the guarantee behind this programme.
That's exactly what the discovery call is for. Book a free 15 minutes, tell me about your Collie and what's been happening, and I'll give you an honest answer about whether this programme is the right fit — or point you somewhere better if it's not.